5 Wrong Reasons For Getting Married

A lot of couples think of doing marriage because of wrong reasons. Wondering what wrong reasons are? From deciding to marry someone because everyone else is getting married to thinking of tying the knot with someone to get over one's ex, these are some of the wrong reasons to get married.
5 Wrong Reasons For Getting Married

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It is possible that you know someone in your circle who is getting married either because of societal or family pressure, or because they want to get over their ex. In our society, when a boy and a girl turn a certain age, they are expected to tie the knot and settle down. While the definition of ‘settling down’ is debatable, what is true is that a lot of people buy into many wrong reasons to get married. It’s only in hindsight that such people realise how wrong their approach had been.
Listed below are some top wrong reasons why people get married or entertain the idea of getting married.

Their friends are getting married

A lot of people come under pressure when they see their friends getting married. This induces a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) in them and which is why they start entertaining the idea of marriage without feeling mentally prepared for it.

They are wanting to get over their ex

If you are someone who is thinking of getting married just to get over your past relationship, then it is definitely a faux pas. Marriage is a commitment and there’s obviously definitely another person involved too. You will not only be wronging yourself but also the other person and their family. So, simply don’t entertain the idea.

Their siblings are going to turn marriageable age soon

A lot of parents also put pressure on the children to get married so that their siblings can also get married after them. However, come to think of it, this is one of the lamest reasons for one to get married. At the end of the day every individual has the right to exercise the choice when they want to get married and who they want to get married to.

They feel they’re running out of time

As soon as a girl or boy hits 25 or 26, their parents start to build the pressure on them to get married. However, age has got nothing to do with marriage. One should be mentally prepared for marriage and only then say yes to a proposal. Those who buy into this the reasoning that time is running and they will not find better matches when they turn older are simply deluding themselves into believing so.

They feel they won’t find a better match again

It happens with a lot of people that they come across a nice match and their parents coax them into believing that they will not find a better match again. Some of them buy into this reasoning and get married to the person thinking that it will turn out to be a good decision. However, one should marry only when they are ready.
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